Many fathers wonder if their careers could hinder their chances of obtaining primary custody of their children. Historically, mothers were typically the default primary caregiver. The good news is that courts today are more focused on the child’s well-being than traditional gender roles.
Both parents have equal rights
New York law does not favor one parent over the other based on gender. Courts weigh in on these factors when determining custody:
- The quality of the relationship between each parent and the child
- The ability of each parent to provide a stable and nurturing environment
- The child’s wishes, if they are old enough to express them
- The overall well-being, be it physical or mental, of each parent
- Any history of domestic violence or abuse
Primary custody means that one parent is mainly responsible for the major decisions about the child’s life, including education, health care and daily activities. A working father has just as much chance as a mother to win primary custody if they can prove it serves the best interest of the child.
Judges recognize the importance of financial stability, which a working father often provides. Still, they will want to make sure that despite your work schedule, you can still provide quality care and attention when you are with your child.
Strengthening your case
To increase your chances of obtaining primary custody, you will need to demonstrate that you are actively involved in your child’s life. For instance, attend school events, doctor’s appointments and extracurricular activities.
If you work full-time, show that you have a plan for childcare, such as reliable family members, babysitters or daycare. If your job allows flexible hours or remote work, it can further prove you have time to care for your child.
Remember, being the best father you can be often means fighting for your right to be present in your child’s life. Work with a New York family law attorney who can help you make it happen.